ATTRACTION IS NOT LOVE

Attraction is not love!

Attraction is an unconscious process; when you attracted to someone you are not only from feel attraction to that person, but many characteristics that person reminds you of and that are not in yourself. Things that you have not reached, makes you feel attraction to the person. Therefore, attraction is more "I" oriented. That's why we're directly attracted to people who do things we can't do, and people who have similar characteristics to ones in our previous relationships. 

When we explain attraction, we can say that it is a game that our mind plays on us due to the desire to complete unfinished paths. Therefore, it is so conditional and concrete. What I mean by concrete here is not that a person can verbalize the characteristics that one is clearly influenced by someone, but that one can somehow reach these characteristics when he/she thinks deeply.

Love, on the other hand, is a concept that is deep enough for "I" alone. More "we" oriented and strengthened by the relationship of giving and receiving, finding strength through the accumulation of moments and at the same time containing unconditionality. 

I define “containing unconditionality" rather than "unconditional" because the concept of unconditional has a very artificial meaning today.

It is necessary to know the value of “I” before becoming “we”. The best way of love is opening you walls to your partner while converting “I” to “we” but also to protect “I” and, of course, the respect shown to it by the other side.

Most importantly, compassion, compassion and compassion... The main thing in love is; compassion for yourself, for your partner, and for the "we" you created together.