I WISH

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"I wish" is a greater unhappiness than failure!

Because of the negative thought cycle we derive, the paths we don't choose can lead to wishes

However, sometimes making mistakes and failing while moving towards a goal can have less emotional burden than taking no action and then wishing for it.

If we change our perception of failure, I think we can give less room for wishes in our lives.

The reason most of us choose not to go down this path at all is because we don't feel ready for the risk of failure.

We cannot and will not always choose what is right. Failures will give us new paths, sometimes new goals and perspectives.

So let's make peace with the feeling of failure, let’s love our failures, and make room for it in our lives.

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