HOW ARE YOU/ HOW IS IT GOING FOR YOU?
Naming what you're feeling can be a
good start to know yourself, explore yourself, and identify your feelings and
move forward!
Although "How are you?"
is a question we hear many times every day, most of us know the answer wrong.
When we all have different
personalities, emotional and intellectual patterns, how can we all have two
options to answer this question?
The answer to the question
"how are you" is not whether I am good or bad.
Perhaps in order to change our
perception of this question, we can try to change the question a little and ask
"how is it going" to open up a space for real and sincere
communication where we can express our real feelings to each other.
If you wish, you can ask yourself
the question "how is it going?" without having someone ask you and do
something for yourself today.
I woke up cheerful today, and I'm a
little worried.
How is it going for you?